Renovation Plans: Kitchen Finishes and Backsplash Help Needed

The time has come! Last week, we closed on our new house and met with our designer to pick out the FUN STUFF!! By fun stuff, I mean flooring, counter tops, etc. And yes, we are working with an amazing designer not because we have oodles of money to spend (her services are very affordable), but because we have no clue what we're doing and want to do this the right way and not the white way or wong way (sorry, couldn't stop myself). 

Here we are in front of our new house, which you can't really see in these photos, or in real life, because it's hidden in shrubbery!

Inside, the kitchen/living layout is pretty compartmentalized, complete with a galley style kitchen in the middle of the house. (Check back for a post about that later!) We're opening up the kitchen/dining/living space and moving the kitchen to the front of the house.

The kitchen finishes are the most exciting part for me - below are similar finishes to what we plan to use in our new kitchen. Nothing in this post is sponsored, but click the photos to see where these products are from. We're aiming for a clean contemporary feel that's still soft and airy. 

Flooring - this is linked to hardwood, but we're planning to do porcelain tile that looks very similar to this.

Flooring - this is linked to hardwood, but we're planning to do porcelain tile that looks very similar to this.

Drawer pulls

Drawer pulls

Countertop

Countertop

Island color!

Island color!

<3 <3 <3

<3 <3 <3

Could I just say that picking out a backsplash is exciting but so tormenting? For me, it's one of those decisions that feels next to deciding what to do for the rest of your life, which is not a decision that often "just feels right." I was only interested in a couple different countertops and flooring types and wanted white cabinets. Those were decently easy to choose. But backsplash? Where does one even begin? I love white subway tiles, but our designer believes we should steer clear of all white in the kitchen. I'm fine with all white, but I also trust our designer since we are going for something that will add a little more dimension and contrast. We picked out a back splash when meeting with our designer on Friday, but I think I picked it out just for the sake of picking something (I couldn't find a picture of it online, otherwise I'd post it here). It's kind of a funky take on subway tiles, which is interesting, but I feel like it's just not me. So, since meeting with our designer last week, I've been scrounging through online beautiful tile world but have had great difficulty finding the right one.

Here are a few I'm interested in but still not sure of:

This is so pretty when arranged vertically! I'm nervous of how it'd go with the island color.

This is so pretty when arranged vertically! I'm nervous of how it'd go with the island color.

Not sure how this one would go with the counter top

Not sure how this one would go with the counter top

Not sure about this one. I like geometric stuff, but this might be too math-y for me.

Not sure about this one. I like geometric stuff, but this might be too math-y for me.

    *Drool* but it's white :(

    *Drool* but it's white :(

Any advice on picking out "the one" backsplash? Are there any good quality and affordable tile sources you know of?

Help. Please!